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Monday, May 24, 2010 at 4:56pm
Is it what it is portray like in the movies, blissful?
Is it the puppy love that all of us has experienced before?
Or is it just feeling happy, being together, fill with love, that as long as you're together, you don't have to care about anything else?
PERHAPS.
These are all the definitions that I've experienced & thought that it was in the different stages of my life.
But it seems that it is not as simple as it is anymore.
Now I begin to understand why they are always saying that wait till we're matured enough before we begin a relationship.
Because love is not as simple as it is. It is not just simply being in love that is enough.
Love needs maturity. It takes courage.
It needs maturity to understand & handle all the things & responsibilities that it comes with it.
It takes courage to face the difficulties, stress which it causes.
It needs endurance to endure the things that whatever people may say or think behind your backs,
to endure the hardships that you may face.
Being in love is not just simply involve only the two of you, that it is enough if you are suitable for each other, that you enjoy each other's companies, simply feeling bliss being together & you don't have to care about anything else anymore.
Because love involves many other things, many considerations & decisions that you need to have the maturity to handle.
Especially it involves the people around you, which is more than enough to become an anxiety to you.
Love is not simple, it is hard.
But why is it that many people are willing to give up anything just for love?
Feeling regretful?
THINK TWICE.
